When you are carefully considering the feelings of others, your boundaries disappear, and in the eyes of others, you cease to exist. The other party can come and go freely in your world, and you will naturally feel uncomfortable. It's like two countries; if your borders have no markers and no one is guarding them, the other party will treat this place as unclaimed territory and can plunder it at will. The reason for this trait may be that caregivers are overly dominant, exert too much control and demands on you, and interfere excessively in your life, leaving you with no autonomous space. When
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